Monday

Fun Vacation With The Whole Family...

I am almost a year late in posting this but we had so much fun and I was waiting for pictures, but never got them edited. So...as the old saying goes. Better late than never. Maybe I will get pictures done later. 

Coming back from Texas for the 4th of July weekend, Han and I stopped a convenience store to take a break. I love this store as they allow dogs inside since Texas discourages you leaving your animals in the car while you go to the bathroom. I was happy, Han was happy and the staff was happy as they loved all over him. As we were leaving the store a young girl of 11 or so opened the door for me and took a look at Han and with a terrified screamed "OMG a Pit Bull!!!!" I looked at her and said "No, he's a Queensland Blue Heeler, not a Pit Bull, Huge Difference!" Then I proceeded on to the car to get him belted in.  I really do wish people would not demonize that breed of dogs.  Yes, there are some that are horrible, those are the ones that have been abused by their owners, made mean and are the ones in the news, but there are many who are beautiful dogs, very gentle and loving with loving responsible owners. 

We made it home in fine fashion. He rode up front with me and did great. He decided the center console was the place to ride as that is where he parked himself. 

I had two weeks to get the house ready for the invasion. Yes invasion...Heather and J with their crew including Sam the dog. Christie with her crew of Lizzy and Chewie. Seven people and four dogs. The only way I know to keep me on track is to make a list and to mark off as I complete a task.  I got almost everything done that needed to be done before they arrived, considering my back was giving me fits. 

We did so much and had so much fun, it was great! We rested Sunday and went out to Dillon and Tawnni's house, J's nephew to eat and swim. Everyone had a great time. I do think it was the hottest day of the staycation. 

Monday we went to the Sam Noble Museum of Natural History to see the Megalodon Shark and to tour the museum. It was fascinating! The kids loved it! Of course the museum is always a hit when they come. The kids love riding in the dinovator. For those that don't know, it's an elevator that gets you up close and personal to a huge dinosaur. There is so much to see and do there. 

Monday evening we went up to Moore to let the kids play on a new and fun playground toy. The splash pad was already closed so we said we would return to let them play on that later. They had such a great time on the Jolly Roger playground equipment. Kids being kids, the boys made new friends instantly. The only downside to the evening is Andy lost his dinner after spinning too much on one of the spin toys.  Poor little guy. 

Tuesday we went to see Christopher Robin.  What a delightful story. The kids loved it and so did the adults. How can you pass up half price popcorn on Popcorn Tuesday at the movies!

Wednesday we went on a road trip to Pop's for Lunch then a tour of the Round Barn in Arcadia. It was fascinating. We then did some driving around Oklahoma City and had ice cream at Capitol Ice Cream. It was delish! The boys played Bocce Ball at a Bocce Ball court across the street. They had a lot of fun doing so and expended some of that pent up energy from riding in the car. We then headed to the big Ferris Wheel down by the Oklahoma River so the kids could ride on it. That is a really neat place with a lot of different activities for families to do. It is a great place for a fun date night. I wanted to take the family to the Urban Farmhouse to show them the unique furniture styles but we ran out of time. 

Thursday, Christie and I took Han and Chewie for their last round of shots. After we got home, the rest of the family went to Lake Murray for a day of fun. I stayed home as my microscopic colitis had risen its ugly little head. They stopped at the Action Figure Museum in Pauls Valley.  They said it was a really good museum and they had a great time looking for one special action figure. There were 15 and they found 13.  They also stopped and got Fried Pies.  Heather got an Adventure Road Card and was bent on getting her places punched.  As they told me it took them five hours to get to Lake Murray, which is only about an hour and fifteen minutes from the house. They didn't get home until about 12:30 a.m. 

Friday, the family went to the Salt flats to dig crystals.  They stopped in Enid and had some great Pizza for lunch. Then proceeded to Jet, Oklahoma and the Great Salt Plains.  They had a great time and found a lot of the crystals.  They then went over to Woodward to see a dear friend, one of Heather and J's college friends,  Shannon Myers and the burial site of their God Daughter, Anastacia, as they were not able to attend her funeral two years ago. I am so glad they made the trip. Again I did not go. Mom stayed home and took care of the doggies. 

Saturday was a hang around day. The crew went to the Greek House for lunch. After lunch I met Christie at the Firestone store so she could get her car aligned. Later that day, my brother Frank and Sister-N-Law Karen came down from Tulsa to visit. We had a great visit. We went to dinner at Ted's Escondido. As usual the food was great.  I am so glad they have gluten-free options. We went back to the house and had a great visit. 

Sunday morning, I think everyone slept in as we got a late start.  Frank and Karen brought over donuts and everyone enjoyed. But then it was time to start packing up everything and get it ready to be loaded into the cars. Christie and I went to pick up her car and it was amazing how much different her car drove and how much better it drove. Thank you Firestone! We decided to go to Ozzie's Diner at the Airport for lunch.  Everyone had a great meal. We said our good-byes to Frank and Karen as they headed back to Tulsa.  The rest of us went to the neighborhood park we found in Moore earlier in the week, so the kids could play at the splash pad.  They had a great time in spite of it being somewhat cool and cloudy and threatening rain.  We came back home after about an hour and the kids got their cars pack and they were on the road by 5:45 p.m. I hate good-byes. but at last I had some silence and a calm dog for the first time in a week. 

Han seemed lost for the first day and has become a bit clingy. Which I really don't mind.  He is starting to cuddle more and that is sweet.  He rarely leaves my side. His training is progressing and he starts school next week. 

As I type this Han is at my feet covered in mud and is trying to catch flies. Reminds me of another silly boy who was a great fly catcher.  

Well the sky is getting dark as storms are all around us here and a cloudburst is eminent. So I bid you adieu for now as I have to go get the mud off of Han before letting him in the house.   








Friends Wherever They Are

Over the years I have made a lot of friends. Some have stuck around others have wandered away never to be heard from again. Sometimes I wonder if that was my fault or if it was just their time to go. Other friends that were dear to me have died and I have felt lost by their leaving this earthly plane, but I press on knowing one day I will see them again. 

I have a lot of friends in disguise, not necessarily people I call "friends" in that endearing term of a friend. I have those friends that I have not seen in years yet we can pick up right where we left off years before like we had never been apart.

I have friends that I have met out on the road Rving.  Those friendships I hold dear. I may not see them as often as I would wish, but we stay in touch via Facebook. What would we do without Facebook. Other friends I have met on Facebook then have gone on to meet them in person. Wonderful close friendships have developed there. 

I have developed friendships through blogs and my blog writing. Something I never thought possible. It's amazing what can come from blogging. 

I have friends from work that I have kept in touch with after my retirement. Then I have friends that I have developed close friendships with through my entrepreneurial business of Mary Kay and Tastefully Simple.

I have friends that when my husband passed away I guess they thought I passed away too. They never called. Funny isn't it, you can be real close to someone and when your spouse dies all of a sudden you cease to exist. I guess they really weren't my friends. Or, maybe they didn't know how to approach me. All I can say is, that really hurt. But you know what, I love you all the same and you can still give me a call. I don't bite. 

Then you have the friend that has delivered the most devastating news to you, that soon they will no longer be with us. In your heart of hearts you make sure you do all you can for them no matter how little or great the task may be.  Or the friend you spent countless hours talking with long distance, helping her through a divorce and after she helped you get your house back in order after your husband passed away, you find out on Facebook that she had suddenly passed away. How devastating. 

Then there are the friends that can't look past politics. I can, why can't they. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. No one can have an intelligent conversation these days without getting offended. More friendships are lost over politics. I don't think I have ever seen so much hate as I am seeing today and this should not be. We should at least be having civil discourse.

Low and behold there is the surprise of friends that you had lost track of then rediscovered, made a connection with and are having great conversation with them.

And last there is always making new friends. Those people you meet that you make a connection with that will help tend the garden in your soul. 

So I ask, what kind of friend are you?


Below are just some of my friends...I am so blessed!



John and Maggie



Ben

Gae-Lynn

Kelsey
John

Donna
My Best Friend!

Doris



The Two Lindas
The Crew at Work

Bill and Leslie

Bobbie and Jim
If your photo was not up here, not to worry, I still love you. I just didn't have a picture of you on my phone.